[ABSTRACT] The communication is regarded as a fact very often, as a material exchange, as something I have in my mind and I try to carry to another person. However it is known the communication does not work like that; but the meaning of the words is in the people not in the own words, and as the people get different experiences, the way they get, interpret and project from the others is very particular, peculiar and even different: So that: ?What it is clear for me is only clear me?. We find th